A Lady Calls Off Her Wedding Few Days To Her Wedding Day - Real Life Story
SHE WROTE..........👇
I never wanted to bring this here but I have to, I am a type of person who
likes to keep my relationship away from social media but this is for
clarification purposes.
This was my secondary school classmate who I thought I knew to an extent. On
December 28, 2020 he did the 1st and 2nd stage in my family marriage list
which bride price happened to be on the 2nd stage which he paid. After he paid
my bride price he started maltreating me.
2021 was hell for me that at some point I left home, after everything we
settled around November 2021 which he promised he will never beat me again.
But still nothing CHANGED.
This is my reason why I am CALLING OFF the Traditional Marriage (Igba Ngwu)
and White Wedding ceremony between me and DAVID OKIKE OFF. (Beating me was not
part of the agreement in our Marriage)
This Saturday should have been my traditional and white wedding ceremony
day.... I supposed to be happy but I am not.
For couple of months now I have been going through a lot.
I have been in a TOXIC RELATIONSHIP for OVER a YEAR now.. I am aware that this
may be a shock to many people, especially people from my Home Town. My
supposed husband HIT and ABUSE me in any slightest provocation, just small
misunderstanding without minding what condition I am into.
Because I have chosen ME and I will not live my entire life facing DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE. My supposed husband is full of RAGE, BEATING me with his Belt,
Stick, Broom is his DAILY ROUTINE, Many a times he had lifted his hammer 🔨 on
me and this Monday last week just because of little misunderstanding he
beat me mercilessly and on the process of it he rushed into his mother's
kitchen for a cutlass, when I noticed he's going for a weapon I locked the
door behind him which he forcefully opened, both his mother and Sisters and
some neighbors were begging him not to cut me with the cutlass ... With
all these things and more I am fed up.
I AM CALLING OFF THE WEDDING AND TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE (IGBA NGWU) BETWEEN ME
AND DAVID OKIKE that supposed to hold on this Saturday 16th, April 2022.
Please to my family and friends I am so sorry for any inconvenience this may have caused you 🙏🏿
But I will not end up with a man who always promise that if I didn't kill
him, that he will kill me.
I am still suffering from unstoppable headache I sustained from the head
injury he gave me 3 weeks ago.
The "bride price paid" will be Returned in due time.
Please Respect my choices. Thanks and God bless you all.
©ADA UBURU
Lessons from the story
- Make wise decision no matter what the case may be.
- Do not be ashamed of what people may say, your life matters.
- Be brave enough to take the right steps.
- A broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage
